Many jewelry is inherited from generation to generation. Wedding rings are no exception. Such a gift can be useful if the young did not have time to take care of the purchase of their wedding rings.
Myths and superstitions
It is believed that any used jewelry carries the energy of the previous owners. Believe it or not - it's up to you. If the parents lived in a happy and strong marriage to the silver wedding (25 life together) and now sincerely want to share their precious experience with the rings, then why not accept such a gift.
Some psychics and esotericists claim that the metal itself does not have an energy memory. Only natural stones (turquoise, emerald, etc.) have the ability to memorize human energy. If the jewelry is with a stone, then the probability of picking up someone else's energy can be up to 80%.
To determine if jewelry carries negative energy, you can use a church candle or a needle with white thread. The ring must be held over a lit candle for a few seconds. If the flame becomes restless or moves away from the ring, then the jewelry is charged with negative. The same thing happens with the needle when you hold it on the thread above the ring.
In the old days, jewelry prepared as a gift was cleaned of the old energy with the help of holy water and salt. They waited for the young moon and for three days left the jewelry in a transparent glass with holy or slightly salty water. You can determine the young moon by the location of the crescent. If you look at the moon directly in front of you, and the crescent moon is on the left, then the moon is waning. On the right is growing (new).
According to some signs, it is impossible to melt the parent's wedding rings, so that they can then be worn on your wedding day. Melting rings carries a powerful energy of destruction, which can negatively affect the future union.
In general, the practice of transferring wedding rings from parents to future newlyweds has been used for a long time and has consolidated the glory of the good old tradition.
To wear parental rings or not to your wedding
There is no unequivocal answer to this question, it all depends on the specific situation and the wishes of the newlyweds themselves.
On the one hand, loving parents will never wish their children a bad future. On the other hand, a young family wants to start their life together from scratch, which means that wedding rings should be chosen at their discretion in a jewelry store.
If you do not want to wear parental rings, be gentle with your parents. Explain that you value this kind of care and that you respect their experiences, but nothing beats the thrill of choosing a wedding dress and rings. In the end, this is your wedding and only you can decide what it will be and what attributes are required for it.
