It's much easier to be a good person than a bad one. It is enough just to start seeing positive moments in life and kindness in people, and over time it will become a habit.
Every person can be good, just like bad. And everyone has to choose the angle from which to look at things. But, as history shows, being a good and honest person is much more attractive than cashing in on someone else's grief and being reputed to be a negative character. In addition, being good for everyone and for yourself, which is especially important, is much easier and easier, which means it's time to take the first step towards a positive life and good relationships with others.
Learn to listen
It is not necessary to go to extremes and become a handkerchief that absorbs the problems and negativity of others, but it is worth learning to listen and hear people. The more attentive you are to people, the more you will get from them.
To learn to listen, you need to learn to control yourself. Get rid of the habit of interrupting and arguing about anything. And be sure to forget about the habit of telling "stories about the topic", it is incredibly annoying. Especially when there are a lot of such stories, and some of them are repeated from conversation to conversation.
Don't be afraid to help people
Taking a friend to the airport, buying bread for a neighbor, or calling a taxi for a stranger is not expensive and not difficult, but these little things will help others to see you as a person who can come to the rescue. And in return, people will also help you when you need it most.
The main thing is not to go to extremes, because there is a risk that in response to virtue they will try to sit on your neck. These moments need to be nipped gently. Do not forget to pull yourself back from the temptation to openly use the reciprocal kindness of others, this does not lead to good.
Expand your social circle
A sociable person who, moreover, treats others with kindness is worth its weight in gold. Do not deny yourself the communication, and there will be many more opportunities to practice a positive attitude towards people and the world.
Learn to see the light at the end of the tunnel
A good person is always optimistic about things. If you are offended and insulted, find the strength to understand the situation and, if the accusations are unfounded, delete the offender from your life. You should not stoop to squabbles and, moreover, weave intrigues and discuss people behind their backs. As if no one would call a good person capable of such actions, and it is many times more difficult to clean a reputation from stains than not to stain it with negativity from a young age.
