You need to build relationships together, and therefore, not only a guy, but also a girl makes a great contribution to love and mutual understanding between two people. And although they say that ideals do not exist, but knowing some tricks, you can become the perfect girl for your boyfriend.
Instructions
Step 1
Relationships are not just a beautiful life together, and even more so not permanent gifts, romantic dates and declarations of love. Relationships are built, first of all, on mutual work on the characters of each other, on mutual respect and understanding. A girl should take almost a more active part in this work than a man. After all, a woman is naturally wise and endowed with patience, knows how to understand human nature and show kindness and tenderness. So why not use your best features to become the perfect girl for your boyfriend!
Step 2
The ideal girl is good both externally and internally. Yes, men love to see a well-groomed, beautiful woman next to them, but at the same time, her character is important to them. Be good at presenting yourself, watch your body, face and clothes, but don't think guys have to notice every detail that catches your eye. He is unlikely to understand whether you have lost weight or gained weight, whether you have changed your hairstyle. And there is no need to sharply concentrate his attention, torment him with questions about how you look, and even more so with reproaches that he did not notice something. The guy does not notice the details, but your whole image.
Step 3
Internally, a girl should be calm, confident and self-sufficient. This means that she should strive to be not a complement to her boyfriend, without whom she is lonely and unhappy, but a full-fledged person. Do not torment your loved one with the constant demand to be only with you - he also has his own interests, worries, affairs. Don't call him every hour to check where he is and how he is doing. And do not be jealous of every girl you meet on the street. A self-sufficient and confident woman understands that a relationship does not consist of constant control and a desire to possess a person completely. Young people perfectly see and feel a trusting attitude towards them, and they will be grateful to you for this.
Step 4
Just like a girl believes in herself and her strength, she also believes in her chosen one. Respect for the other person, their desires, interests, social circle is one of the wonderful signs of a great relationship. It is good if you love your partner's hobbies and interests, but this does not always work out. Then at least treat them with respect, not counting nonsense and a waste of time, because this part of life is important for a young man.
Step 5
But what should not be done in a relationship: do not try to radically change your man. And certainly don't do it with constant scandals, reproaches, and reminders. No guy can stand it. But this does not mean that you need to completely distance yourself from the development of a young person's career or character. There is simply no need to hope that the features inherent in nature can be radically changed. A quiet introvert doesn't make a sociable party-goer. And a humble performer is unlikely to make a good boss. But the inspiration and love of a woman at all times gave men strength, so give up arguments and gain faith in your man, female patience and charm in order to help him and be support for him.
Step 6
Observe the behavior and desires of your chosen one. Notice what he loves and appreciates, how he rests, and how you can surprise him. Of course, you will not fulfill every desire of your partner and live only to fulfill his every whim. But understanding the desires of your young man is the way to understanding his personality, and therefore a good relationship with him. In addition, as you try to change something in his habits, he wants to change something in you. Therefore, mutual agreement to changes will only benefit the couple. Discuss such issues together, otherwise, later unspoken wishes can lead to a quarrel.
