The word "etiquette" denotes the rules of behavior adopted in a particular society in predetermined situations, taking into account politeness, courtesy, common sense in human relationships. The practical significance of etiquette is that it allows people from different social groups to use ready-made "forms" of politeness in different situations without much effort. To make a good impression on others, you must use the rules of etiquette.
Instructions
Step 1
Speech, or verbal, etiquette. Use verbal formulas of speech etiquette, if you need to greet, thank, congratulate, invite somewhere, make a request, express condolences, etc. Also, speech etiquette is the basis of the practice of argumentation - the art of conducting a conversation. Oratory, or rhetoric, also uses verbal formulas of speech etiquette.
Step 2
Non-verbal etiquette, i.e. use of gestures and facial expressions. Study the rules of non-verbal etiquette so as not to get confused when using a certain gesture, which in different nations can mean completely opposite concepts. For example, a raised thumb, an approving gesture, in some peoples is offensive to the interlocutor. The main tool for non-verbal communication is smiling, so smile more often when communicating.
Step 3
Etiquette proxemics, or the organization of space during communication, conversation. The main rule of proxemics: never get too close to the interlocutor. Everyone has a right to private space, and intruding into it is an unpleasant act. In addition, in order not to inadvertently offend a person, be sure to ask your guests what place you can take at the table. This also applies to the rules of proxemics.
Step 4
Etiquette, or the world of things in etiquette. Often, etiquette situations are associated with holiday events. In such situations, it is customary to give gifts, flowers, dress more smartly, use jewelry. All this refers to the norms of etiquette paraphernalia. Therefore, in order not to be misinterpreted, come to the holiday in smart clothes, make gifts for birthday people, give flowers to women as a sign of affection or, perhaps, more serious feelings. Don't give out your business cards to anyone and everyone. According to etiquette attributes, a business card is a sign of your business relationship, therefore it should be offered only to potential partners and customers.
Step 5
Remember that a tactful and well-mannered person behaves in accordance with the norms of etiquette not only “in public”, but also at home. If you consider yourself a cultured person, never allow yourself to be rude and aggressive towards your household.
