It is often very difficult to get to know someone. Indecision combined with uncertainty prevails over self-control. It is difficult to cope with the excitement, but nothing is impossible!
Instructions
Step 1
In books on psychology, you can read about how to get acquainted, how to approach, what to say. But sometimes one gets the impression that the authors themselves have not read what they are writing about. It's easy to argue when I've never tried to get to know each other in my life.
Before you approach a stranger, you must accept one immutable truth: if for even a second you doubt whether it is worth taking the first step, you have already lost. Get all thoughts out of your head. Act, no need to think. When you start to hesitate, never dare to approach a stranger.
Step 2
First of all, you need to drive yourself into a situation from which you cannot get out, that is, go up to the person and say something like words of greeting, after which there will be nowhere to retreat. Since you have already taken the first step, you can take the second one. The main thing is to believe in your own strength. Without this, nowhere.
Step 3
If the mind gets the better of you and you can't get everything out of your head, do it differently. You should accept the fact that you don't have to try to please the person in the first five minutes. Subsequently, there will be plenty of time for this. In the meantime, you just need to come up and strike up a conversation, and then everything else, in turn.
Step 4
Do not be afraid of failure and do not initially prepare yourself for it. No one will judge you for wanting to get to know someone. Tune in so that there may not be another chance. Either now or never. Do not be afraid of failure and do not initially prepare yourself for it. No one will judge you for wanting to get to know someone. Tune in so that there may not be another chance. Either now or never.
Step 5
The most important thing is to behave naturally. As a rule, first impressions are always deceiving. But if you are yourself, then a person will notice it immediately. But honesty is what everyone values most.
