Many men are concerned about one important question: why some women pay attention to some men, and pass by others without even looking in their direction. And it's not about beauty and financial stability, it's about perseverance and self-confidence. Any man can develop these qualities, the main thing is to learn a few rules that every man should know.
Men's pickup rules
Before starting a conversation, you need to create a good atmosphere. A man who evokes good emotions attracts a woman. Conversation is easier to build with mutual interest. If a man causes antipathy in a woman, the conversation will not work. The man's task is to interest the woman. The easiest way is to smile. The smile should be sincere and open so that the woman understands the real interest and smiles in return.
It is worth starting a conversation only when the eyes meet. Not a single girl will like obsession and persistence, and her insolence can generally scare her. Before starting a conversation, you need to draw her attention to yourself. It is enough to walk next to her, but not very close. The comfort zone is the distance of an outstretched arm, so she will understand that a man is walking for a reason, but with her.
It is better to conduct a conversation on neutral topics. You should not touch on personal topics in the conversation, it is better to talk about the weather, about the environment, ask where the girl is going. You can't be too intrusive or load the girl with unnecessary questions, this can scare her.
Do not be afraid to show your interest, the girl should understand the intentions of the young man. The girl will be very pleased if she realizes that she is cute to him. Even beauties are usually unhappy with their appearance, which means that compliments are always appropriate. However, one should not constantly talk about her appearance. You can pay attention to yourself, tell something interesting about yourself.
You can meet women everywhere. Many pickupers choose the same places for acquaintance: restaurants, cafes, nightclubs. It makes sense to choose some neutral place: street, park, shopping center, bus stop, metro. The chances of meeting a woman in a neutral place increase.
Women's pickup rules
The pickup rules aren't just for men. The lessons of seduction are now being actively mastered by women who wish to succeed in communicating with the opposite sex.
First of all, it should be noted that the women's pickup is still different from the men's. If a man must learn to be the first to take a step and get acquainted, then the girl needs to create all the conditions so that the guy has a desire to establish contact. It is important to show the man that you are interested and ready to talk.
Naturally, for this, you first need to attract the attention of a person. This is easy to do. You need to make eye contact with him, and then smile charmingly. Do not hesitate to exchange glances with a man, so the girl can give him an assessment herself. It is also very important to be able to correctly present oneself from the advantageous side, to demonstrate oneself in the best possible light and to emphasize one's merits. It is unlikely that this will leave a man indifferent. By the way, there is some embarrassment for the girls, but only to a small extent.
When the man is no longer taking his eyes off the girl, it is worth looking away, supposedly in a light reverie. Such a quick change in mood will arouse interest in a man. The girl will seem mysterious and mysterious to him. However, you shouldn't frown. You need to be relaxed, not tense. By the time the girl shows with a glance that she was bored alone, the guy, most likely, is already fully "ripe" for dating.
Of course, there is an easier way - to speak to the man first. As a rule, guys do not refuse dialogues with girls. At the same time, it is not at all necessary to conduct any serious conversations at the first meeting. The word "hello" is enough. Next, you can give the guy a minor compliment, for example, noting how well he matched the tie to the suit. Of course, the main thing is not to forget to smile charmingly. By the way, you can strike up a conversation if you turn to a young man and with some small request, for example, to show you the way.
