It makes me happy when a person thinks about how not to ruin the life of his neighbors at home or dacha. Worse if he wants to make their life unbearable. In fact, it is not at all difficult to make neighborly relations kind, so as not to spoil life and nerves for yourself and for people. You just need to remember and follow some common human rules.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, follow the golden rule of buying real estate. Buy not a house, but a neighbor, as the famous saying goes. Before settling on purchasing a particular apartment, get to know its neighbors on the landing, with those who will live with you through the wall and below your apartment. Talk to the people responsible for the condition of the entrance. Or with street committees, if you buy a private house, a summer residence. Such people will be able to clarify a lot. Sometimes apartments or houses are sold precisely because of inadequate neighbors. And you don't have to fight them again. After all, you are not buying new housing for this.
Step 2
When moving to a new place of residence, set aside time if you are going to settle here for a long time, and get to know the neighbors. No need to go to neighboring apartments with alcohol under your arm and a bunch of dried salted fish. You may be misunderstood. Better treat them with a pie of your own baked goods. Men can simply offer help in a neighborly way, if it is needed, and explain that they are now their new neighbors from such and such an apartment or house.
Step 3
Living in an apartment building, you should remember that other people, families, possibly with small children, the sick, the elderly live outside the walls of your apartment. Observe the basic rules of decency, including music, TV. Decrease the volume of the repeaters to the sound standard. Perhaps not everyone shares your desire to listen to energetic rock during the day. Someone is sick, someone is resting, someone is putting a small child to bed.
Step 4
After 23 o'clock in the evening, all sounds of household appliances should be significantly muffled. Excessive noise, especially at night, is always a stumbling block between many neighbors.
Step 5
Ask how the entrance is cleaned, what rules for its maintenance exist here. Do not make your own adjustments to established traditions. Better connect to them, but without being overly enthusiastic. It is required to carry out cleaning on a certain day of the month near the door of your apartment - do it. Neighbors ask you to throw money off to paint the walls in the entrance - hand over the money, like everyone else, do not be trifles.
Step 6
Do not follow someone else's life through the peephole, do not discuss neighbors with other neighbors. In order for neighbors to become a truly friendly united team, it is sometimes useful to hold so-called corporate meetings at home or at least on your own entrance. For example, everyone can gather at a certain time to arrange a tea party in the courtyard under a canopy, where the housewives of the families will bring pastries and tea. Such pleasant meetings and communication bring neighbors very close, help in a peaceful atmosphere to resolve the conflict situations of your yard that arise from time to time.
