The process of arousal is nothing more than the stimulation of nerve receptors in order to obtain the necessary pleasant sensations. But it is known that what one finds exciting does not make an impression on another at all. Therefore, it is rather difficult to deduce a universal recipe for arousal.
Instructions
Step 1
You can approach this process empirically and understand what excites you, experimenting in one way or another. Ultimately, you will have formed a set of "tools" in order to quickly increase your sexual desire.
Step 2
But you can also use the "scientific approach". It is based on the fact that all people are divided into groups depending on which channel of perception is the leading one for them. Simply put, some of the most information from the outside world is obtained through sight. They are called visuals. Others prefer to get as much information as possible by ear - these are audials. For the third, it is important to act, they perceive the external world through bodily sensations. They are called kinesthetics.
Step 3
It is perhaps easiest for visuals to find "sources of inspiration" for themselves. It offers video and photographic materials of erotic content that help stimulate the process of arousal. Needless to say, there is no shortage of such products. The visual arousal will be enhanced by a large mirror installed directly next to the bed of love, in which he can contemplate himself and his partner during lovemaking.
Step 4
For the auditor, the most exciting erotic stimulus can be the sounds made by himself and his partner during sexual intercourse. You can ask your loved one to comment on their actions, out loud to evaluate your merits. You might like the use of taboo vocabulary - don't be shy about that. If the auditor needs to get aroused on their own, a read-aloud erotic story is the best way. You can use the services of "phone sex".
Step 5
For kinesthetics, the main exciting factor is the stimulation of erogenous zones. It is bodily sensations that can most quickly lead him to the peak of sexual arousal. Experiment with a variety of caresses, their intensity, explore your body: sometimes it can respond with a strong wave of excitement to stimulation in the most unexpected places. So, for women, in addition to traditional erogenous zones, caresses of the hands, elbow and knee bends, and the neck can become extremely exciting. Some men get aroused when their partner bites their earlobes, gives an erotic back massage, etc.
Step 6
And, of course, the fastest way to get aroused is by maximally influencing all channels of perception. Let hearing, vision, and tactile sensations in the complex be involved in the erotic game, then it will bring true pleasure to both partners.
