For a woman, phone calls are a way to get rid of the communication deficit without interrupting household chores. In parallel with the telephone chatter, a woman can unnoticeably iron the laundry or cook dinner, because doing several things at the same time is much easier for the fair half than for men.
Scientists have conducted a series of studies, according to the results of which it was found that the average male telephone conversation is 8 times shorter than a female one. And the scientists have not yet figured out who and whom the conversation is going on. After all, a woman with a friend can talk 20 times longer than her husband with his friend. By the way, married women talk on the phone more often and longer than unmarried women. There are two reasons for such a woman's love for telephone conversations: psychological and domestic.
The psychological tendency of women to make telephone calls
Women need constant communication. The average man can be silent for weeks without harm to his health, and if a woman is deprived of the constant opportunity to share her thoughts and experiences, this will certainly affect her well-being and mood. The reason for such a conversational addiction is in the special structure of the female brain. In order for a woman to consider the situation, she must certainly discuss it. For a woman's speech apparatus is a kind of catalyst for analytical processes. Men, on the other hand, are able to think in silence, they do not feel the need for hours of chatter.
But why exactly a telephone? The fact is that when communicating directly with the interlocutor, you have to completely delve into the conversation. Involuntarily, with direct contact, the interlocutor's facial expressions, his behavior, reaction are striking, and observing all this makes it impossible to plunge into one's own thoughts. And talking on the phone takes only the speech centers and organs of hearing, while thoughts at this time can go anywhere, especially when discussing your favorite actors or passions in popular TV shows.
The everyday reason for women's love for telephone chatter
Among the married representatives of the beautiful half of humanity, there are much more lovers of occupying the telephone line for hours, because wives have several times more household chores than bachelors. And due to the fact that women cannot do without communication at all, as already mentioned, they have to combine the discussion of the latest news with household chores like ironing, sewing or making pies. Besides, doing boring cleaning and other unhappy household chores is many times easier when you can distract yourself from telephone conversations.
It turns out that women spend a lot of time on telephone communication not because of boredom, but rather because of psychological necessity. And it is better for the wife to discuss her favorite TV show with her friends in parallel with cooking dinner, than if instead of creating a culinary masterpiece, she goes to visit her friend, leaving her husband and children hungry.
